True Love Advice - Multiply True Love

There is a way to multiply the true love you feel in your relationship every day. Actually, there are many ways to do this, but the Love Multiplier is a very simple tool for increasing the amount of true love the two of you actually feel every day in your relationship. This works wonders in just minutes. At first it will seem a bit odd and technical, but just read it all the way through and you’ll see how it can work wonders.

We are all in relationships to feel love. That's what we want. This is no great secret. The more love we feel, the more intimate and connected and close our sense of the relationship.

But most of us feel no true sense of control over how much true love we can experience or provide for our partner. At first we felt a lot of love and appreciation from our mate. In the courting phase, it was pretty great.

But after the courting phase, once we are “together” on a regular basis, sometimes we feel really loved, sometimes we feel anywhere from okay to tense to distant. After a while we can end up "stumbling about" in our relationship hoping to feel really loved as it becomes more hit and miss.

The Love Multiplier is a specific method for making each other feel really truly loved every day. It is very simple and places a lot of power in your hands to increase the love you experience. Once you learn this technology you can increase the love you experience in your relationship tenfold!

The Love Multiplier is deceptively simple. The first thing you need to do is to discover your personal “structure” for feeling loved. Yes, you have a "structure" for feeling loved by your partner. There is some thing or combination of things that he/she can do that make you feel really loved. You know what it is though you may not have thought about it in this way before.

When a fly buzzes by your ear on a hot day you probably are not overwhelmed by feelings of love. When your man whispers hot nothings into your ear you may have some pretty strong feelings of love. The fact that the buzzing fly doesn't turn you on but the hot whisperings do is a clue. Some things make you feel loved. Some don't!

Is this a revelation or what??

Feelings don't just “happen” to us at random (you can learn more about this in the Emotional IQ course at www.emotionalskills.com). Feelings are often results, they have “structures,” certain things can trigger them. Love is the same way. While it is a mystery in its depth and power, it is also something that we can "feel on purpose" much more than we ever imagined.

We each have a personal "way" that we feel loved. Some of us feel more loved with visual displays, like flowers or lingerie. Some of us feel loved more verbally, hot whisperings in our ears. Your job is to discover what your structure for feeling loved is, and then discover your mate's structure for feeling loved. Once you know more EXACTLY what makes your mate feel loved, you can then do EXACTLY that once or several times a day to

have your partner feel loved much more of the time.

And once you know EXACTLY what makes you feel loved, you can use the skill of Making Intimate Requests to get your mate to do EXACTLY that every day so that you feel loved. So that you, yes, you, can feel really loved. Every day, much of the time, you can feel really loved.

Action Steps:

1. Take ten minutes to figure out what makes you feel really loved. Is it when he does this or she wears that? Is it more visual, physical or auditory? Remember, there is no right way to feel loved, the way you feel loved is perfect for you.

2. Take ten more minutes to start to figure out what makes your lover feel really loved. Not just in the bedroom, which is going to be more physically based, but also outside the bedroom. What makes your partner purr?

3. Go ahead and start finding out! See if you can make your partner purr or communicate pleasure outside the bedroom. Give them a backrub. Wear something special. Whisper sweet nothings. Find their love button and push it! Spend two minutes a day exploring this til you feel you have it down. See where this leads you.

These things are not hard to do. If you spend ten minutes a day on true love you can experience a lot more of it in your relationship. Start to look at true love as a practice. Start to work it into becoming a habit.

Studies show that we need to do something for about 30 days in a row for it to become a habit. Practicing these things on a daily basis will not only be fun while doing them but can help you actually make true love into a habit that will help intimacy thrive in your relationship over the years.

So go out and start to practice the love multiplier on a regular basis. Make your mate purr with pleasure for 5 minutes a day. See what you get back!

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